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said last night not to let too many people hold the baby for breastfeeding is established. She said it overstimulates & tires and child when the child returned to her mother, she just wants to sleep, not nurse. Some of my relatives will be hurt or disappointed if they can not keep my child in her first days here.Do you agree with this opinion? If so, how would you set limits on family and friends not to hurt their feelings? I see her point. The other day Emma was here, she was held, and went all day. That evening she was so grumpy. I'm sure she was not just over-stimulated, but the wounds. Put them in advance what LC said. Or, say nurses have it for you. I breastfed my first son at 9 months and I am currently nursing my 4 month old, and I had no problem with people about him. Let's close relatives have him and you will be fine. I'm actually ready to get my certification, lactation consultant and it is really exciting! Apparently not let people who are sick in the vicinity, make sure that all had used disinfectant before they stop it I can not imagine my mom says sorry you can not keep him still. It is not advice I ever heard before. I think it's best to follow your child. If they are good and frequent care, they may be in possession of other people as they want. If they seem to be excited or nervous to limit visitors for a while. (And limit visitors to no sense anyway. You need plenty of rest and take care much of your time so you do not have to be entertaining family. Although family / friends are less than supportive / knowledgeable about breastfeeding you do not have to do with a lot of ignorant advice . ("Oh, I can not give her a bottle?" "She is so often nursing and you're tired. Just one bottle does not hurt." "Are you sure you have enough milk? She's'hungry so much . Let me say to her with a bottle ") All babies sleep in the first anyway.it not matter if you keep them, others keep them, or try to nurse. If the baby is awake and wants to care, not be happy with someone to avoid anyway. I would say the baby nurse whenever they want, and probably your child to sleep while others remain. I totally agree with that! with my children was just the beginning of the immediate family, mother of, father, grandmother, grandfather, grandparents were not too long or too often, as even his father, except the hands too much when I needed a shower .just do grandparents only, and the cards too. limit the number of people who have a baby. If you wonder why, or even if your family do not ask, makes it clear that it is their desire to care for your baby and not about them. You could even say, for first month the father and mother just hold the baby. Let me say to her with a bottle ") All babies sleep in the first anyway.it not matter if you keep them, others keep them, or try to nurse. If the baby is awake and wants to care, not be happy with someone to avoid anyway. I would say the baby nurse whenever they want, and probably your child to sleep while others remain. I totally agree with that! with my children was just the beginning of the immediate family, mother of, father, grandmother, grandfather, grandparents were not too long or too often, as even his father, except the hands too much when I needed a shower .just do grandparents only, and the cards too. limit the number of people who have a baby. If you wonder why, or even if your family do not ask, makes it clear that it is their desire to care for your baby and not about them. You could even say, for first month the father and mother just hold the baby. Let me say to her with a bottle ") All babies sleep in the first anyway.it not matter if you keep them, others keep them, or try to nurse. If the baby is awake and wants to care, not be happy with someone to avoid anyway. I would say the baby nurse whenever they want, and probably your child to sleep while others remain. I totally agree with that! with my children was just the beginning of the immediate family, mother of, father, grandmother, grandfather, grandparents were not too long or too often, as even his father, except the hands too much when I needed a shower .just do grandparents only, and the cards too. limit the number of people who have a baby. If you wonder why, or even if your family do not ask, makes it clear that it is their desire to care for your baby and not about them. You could even say, for first month the father and mother just hold the baby. Let me say to her with a bottle ") All babies sleep in the first anyway.it not matter if you keep them, others keep them, or try to nurse. If the baby is awake and wants to care, not be happy with someone to avoid anyway. I would say the baby nurse whenever they want, and probably your child to sleep while others remain. I totally agree with that! with my children was just the beginning of the immediate family, mother of, father, grandmother, grandfather, grandparents were not too long or too often, as even his father, except the hands too much when I needed a shower .just do grandparents only, and the cards too. limit the number of people who have a baby. If you wonder why, or even if your family do not ask, makes it clear that it is their desire to care for your baby and not about them. You could even say, for first month the father and mother just hold the baby.